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这个周末

喜欢周日晚上早早的钻进被窝，打开床头的收音机，一个Unknown的频率，男DJ用磁性的声音接听着Call In, 主题大多关于爱。爱与被爱；为爱留下，为爱离开；曾今的爱，现在的爱；浓情过，平淡时。这样的夜，每盏灯亮处都是有故事的人。更喜欢每个电话后放的音乐，柔美的，激奏的，如同心情辗转。

 

周末有个机会回了趟MQ University, 天气很好，阳光明媚的，让我的心情无比的RELAX，慢慢的走在校园里，我想起了几年前挑灯夜战忙考试交ESSAY的紧张时刻，在学校后面的大草坪学打GOLF时的笨笨姿势；想起了开学orientation day被发Condoms的惊讶，也想起了那个被拒绝的可爱脸庞。恰巧礼拜六是Open Day (向想考MQ UNI的学生和家长展示学校各个方面的日子），看着穿着红色Information Tshirt的高年级学生，他们脸上热情的笑容让我突然无限感慨，好风华正茂啊，那时的我也应该是这样的吧！

 

逛完学校，意犹未尽，朋友提议去David Jones，为了25周年店庆，那里有个花展。果然漂亮，但是不知道为什么有种过春节的感觉。不管如何，春天总是充满希望的。

 

 

 

谈论 Success

         Here are 72 of the best success quotes to help motivate you to go after your dreams, with lots of gusto:

1. “Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” — Herman Cain

2. “Most successful men have not achieved their distinction by having some new talent or opportunity presented to them. They have developed the opportunity that was at hand.” — Bruce Barton

3. “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become.” — Jim Rohn

4. “Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It’s quite simple, really. Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn’t at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it.  So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remember that’s where you will find success.” — Thomas J. Watson

5. “In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.” – Bill Cosby

6. “Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want.” — Jim Rohn

7. “It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.” — Napoleon Hill

8. “Success is not a destination, it’s a journey.” — Zig Ziglar

9. “The person who gets the farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore.” — Dale Carnegie

10. “Success is simply a matter of luck. Ask any failure.” — Earl Nightingale

11. “You have achieved success if you have lived well, laughed often and loved much.”– Anonymous

12. “Success means having the courage, the determination, and the will to become the person you believe you were meant to be.” — George Sheehan

13. “Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life – think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success, that is the way great spiritual giants are produced.” — Swami Vivekananda

14. “One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.”– Arthur Ashe

15. “God gives every bird a worm, but he does not throw it into the nest.” — Swedish Proverb

16. “When a man is willing and eager, the gods join in.” — Aeschylus

17. “An Unfailing Success Plan: At each day’s end write down the six most important things to do tomorrow; number them in order of importance, and then do them.” — Anonymous

18. “Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go.” – William Feather

19. “One of the commonest mistakes and one of the costliest is thinking that success is due to some genius, some magic — something or other which we do not possess. Success is generally due to holding on, and failure to letting go. You decide to learn a language, study music, take a course of reading, train yourself physically. Will it be success or failure? It depends upon how much pluck and perseverance that word “decide” contains. The decision that nothing can overrule, the grip that nothing can detach will bring success. Remember the Chinese proverb, “With time and patience, the mulberry leaf becomes satin.” — Maltbie Davenport Babcock

20. “Choice, not circumstances, determines your success.” — Anonymous

21. “I dread success. To have succeeded is to have finished one’s business on earth, like the male spider, who is killed by the female the moment he has succeeded in courtship. I like a state of continual becoming, with a goal in front and not behind.” — George Bernard Shaw

22. “The real contest is always between what you’ve done and what you’re capable of doing. You measure yourself against yourself and nobody else.” — Geoffrey Gaberino

23. “Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” — Anonymous

24. “Success is a state of mind. If you want success, start thinking of yourself as a success.” — Dr. Joyce Brothers

25. “It’s never too late to be who you might have been.” – George Elliot

26. “Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities. They vary in their desires to reach their potential.” — John Maxwell

27. “You must do the very thing you think you cannot do.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

28. “Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.” – Abraham Lincoln

29. “Success comes before work only in the dictionary.” — Anonymous

30. “Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown.” – Ross Perot

31. “Success is a science; if you have the conditions, you get the result.” — Oscar Wilde

32. “One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in particular.” — Anthony Robbins

33. “Making your mark on the world is hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. But it’s not. It takes patience, it takes commitment, and it comes with plenty of failure along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid this failure, because you won’t. It’s whether you let it harden or shame you into inaction, or whether you learn from it; whether you choose to persevere.” – Barack Obama

34. “Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” – Thomas Edison

35. “You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try.” — Beverly Sills

36. “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.” — Henry David Thoreau

37. “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” — Theodore Roosevelt

38. “If you would hit the mark, you must aim a little above it; Every arrow that flies feels the attraction of earth.”– Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

39. “If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can’t, you’re right.” – Henry Ford

40. “If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you’ll achieve the same results.” Anthony Robbins

41. “I believe that being successful means having a balance of success stories across the many areas of your life. You can’t truly be considered successful in your business life if your home life is in shambles.” – Zig Ziglar

42. “Success and failure. We think of them as opposites, but they’re really not. They’re companions – the hero and the sidekick.” — Laurence Shames

43. “There are so many ways to fail but only one way to succeed; NEVER GIVE UP!” — Johni Pangalila

44. “Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work.” — Stephen King

45. “I must admit that I personally measure success in terms of the contributions an individual makes to her or his fellow human beings.” – Margaret Mead

46. “Motivation will almost always beat mere talent.” — Norman R. Augustine

47. “‘Tis a lesson you should heed, try, try again. If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” — William Edward Hickson

48. “You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don’t think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully.” — Anthony Robbins

49. “To follow, without halt, one aim: There’s the secret of success.” – Anna Pavlona

50. “There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way.” – Christopher Morley

51. “Men are born to succeed, not fail.” — Henry David Thoreau

52. “Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.” — Henry David Thoreau

53. “Actually, I’m an overnight success. But it took twenty years.” — Monty Hall

54. “Keep steadily before you the fact that all true success depends at last upon yourself.” — Theodore T. Hunger

55. “Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.” – Robert Collier

56. “Some people dream of success… while others wake up and work hard at it.” — Author Unknown

57. “To succeed… you need to find something to hold on to, something to motivate you, something to inspire you.” – Tony Dorsett

58. “For true success ask yourself these four questions: Why? Why not? Why not me? Why not now?” — James Allen

59. “The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me?” — Ayn Rand

60. “Success in its highest and noblest form calls for peace of mind and enjoyment and happiness which come only to the man who has found the work that he likes best.” – Napoleon Hill

61. “The winner’s edge is not in a gifted birth, a high IQ, or in talent. The winner’s edge is all in the attitude, not aptitude. Attitude is the criterion for success.” – Denis Waitley

62. “There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” – Colin Powell

63. “I find my greatest pleasure, and so my reward, in the work that precedes what the world calls success.” – Thomas Edison

64. “You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job, and not be paid for it.” – Oprah Winfrey

65. “Your chances of success in any undertaking can always be measured by your belief in yourself.” — Robert Collier

66. “You will be a failure, until you impress the subconscious with the conviction you are a success. This is done by making an affirmation which clicks.” – Florence Scovel Shinn

67. “Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.” – Arthur Ashe

68. “A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success.” – Elbert Hubbard

69. “We must be the epitome-the embodiment-of success. We must radiate success before it will come to us. We must first become mentally, from an attitude standpoint, the people we wish to become.” — George Herbert Allen

70. “When I was younger, I thought that the key to success was just hard work. But the real foundation is faith. Faith — the idea that ‘I can do it’ — is the opposite of fear (‘What if I fail?’). And faith creates motivation which in turn leads to commitment, hard work, preparation … and eventually success.”– Howard Twilley

71. “Give the world the best you have, and the best will come to you.” — Madeline Bridge

72. “Every achiever I have ever met says, ‘My life turned around when I began to believe in me.’” – Robert SchullerHere are 72 of the best success quotes to help motivate you to go after your dreams, with lots of gusto:

Andy Go, Andy Go Go!

2008年10月5日 八点半 一个疯狂夜晚的开始

 

终于等到了我最爱偶像刘德华的演唱会,激动,期待

 

意料之中,又是一个大制作,场景,音乐,编舞都能看出制作单位的用心,某些片段都觉得老刘在’玩命’. 当看到ANDY被吊到半空,整个身体被甩着撞布墙的时候,音乐,灯光,真的是配合的天衣无缝,足以震撼全场几万人,让人忍不住高呼,尖叫’刘德华,刘德华’, 也许这就是偶像的魅力.

 

熟悉我的人应该知道我从初中就视ANDY为偶像,承认那个时候的崇拜是盲目的. 但是随着对偶像的关注,我发现ANDY是一个非常非常敬业的人.也许很多人都觉得他的敬业无非就是年纪那么大还出来’赚吆喝’, 其实当你静下来去看他的任何一次表演,包括商业演出,颁奖典礼,演唱会,他的一招一式都是那么的一丝不苟.他在采访中说,他非常在意自己在别人眼中是一个怎么样的人, 所以每次只要面对镜头,他能够做100%,他都不会做99%.也许这也是当明星的天赋吧.

 

其次,我还觉得他是个非常乐观的人, 当他最红的时候,一年拍10几部电影的时候,他自己当电影公司老板,结果是差点要破产,就算如此,七尺男儿,大不了从头再来,之后我们看到了<无间道>中那个重心机的坏警察,拿金马奖的大块头,更有唱出男人心声的<男儿哭吧哭吧不是罪>,套用一句话,你失去的同时你肯定得到了.我想笃信佛教的老刘应该能体会到其中的真谛了吧.

 

一个美妙的夜晚,在人海中发泄了一回,伴着音乐又回忆起十年之前的纯真, 该不会有比这更幸福的了吧.

 

 

会闹的女人最幸福(转)

女人总是喜欢在情感与婚姻生活里“闹一闹”的。我所指的“闹”是在讲道理的大前提下，在尊重对方的大方向下，发发脾气，使使小性，耍耍赖，或者用撒娇发嗲的方式去拐着弯的达到自己的小目的。

    在情感世界里女人是敏感和脆弱的，不服不行。男人们也有脆弱的时候，但多不是主动的脆弱。而女人们却大多是主动的脆弱，主动的投入，主动的不满，主动的吵闹，又主动的受伤害。一但“闹”过了头，事情到了无法收拾的地步后，女人们又容易变得慌乱和犹豫，于是，很多的伤痛就由起而起，放也不是不放也不是。女人，本就不善于收拾残局，这是男人们的强项。所以，如果是男人们自己“闹”出来的残局，就让他们自己去收拾好了，你坐观后效。如果是女人们“闹”出来的残局，那怎么也得自己硬着头皮上了。

    生活是繁杂的，人与人之间也越来越陌生，我们身边就是不缺钱也都缺少爱与关怀。女人们和男人们一样在撑着半边天，还要在家庭与育子方面付出难以想象的精力与艰辛，再加上特殊的生理原因，有时候无名火压都压不住。也正因为有了这些付出，女人们眼睛里似乎揉不得沙子，在婚姻的平淡期变得多疑与暴躁也就不足为奇了。

    只是，我们身边的男人们也在承担着更沉重的社会责任，有理的取闹多了都不一定有耐心哄你，就别说无理的取闹了。很多情感上的裂痕都是我们自己闹出来的，外在的原因也比不过婚姻里的不信任与冷漠来的更伤人。即使婚姻里真的挤进了第三个人，又有多少是该放弃的？又有多少是错推出的？我们总在原谅和不原谅里徘徊，却忽略了哪一场爱情没有代价？哪一种相守没有磨难？如果十件事情有九件好，那为什么我们还要拿那一件不好来苛求别人和折磨自己？

    我是主张在婚姻生活里女人们应该适当的“闹一闹”的。即使是再热烈的爱情，在进入婚姻后都会变得或平静，或慵懒了。我们都需要不断的往我们的婚姻里注入新的血液，以保持它的鲜活，这样的婚姻才是健康与有益的。而女人们适当的“闹”会缓和婚姻的紧张情绪，增加夫妻生活的情趣。柔能够克刚，女人应该是家庭生活的主宰，男人本质上是愿意在家里听老婆的，就看你的指挥棒舞的好不好。只是，要把握好“闹”的度，要得饶人处且饶人，要见好就收，要学会冷静处理婚姻里的突发事件。

    我们常常都是在爱里“闹”，却不会在“闹”里爱，其实这“闹”里的爱才是一种有风情无风险的爱。而那种会在爱里“闹”的女人也将在婚姻生活里享受到最大的幸福与快乐。

    给男人一个疼爱你的理由吧，爱情不能无私但也决不是自私的事情，做家庭的“CEO”任重道远，更须将心比心。勤俭持家也不要忘记是女人就应该美丽，事业忙碌也不要忘记自己还是家里的妻，即使生活的艰辛已经吹尽了你脸上最后一抹红晕，你也可以抬起手为你的他擦一擦额角的汗滴，然后在他深情的注视里平静的微笑。

人定胜瓜

老妈对我太好了，我说想吃西瓜，她就不辞辛劳的从菜场搬了个回家，忽略罗嗦了现在西瓜好贵之类，着实让我感动。中午吃完一碗拌面，我就迫不及待的狂啃数块，爽哉爽哉！谁之摸肚之际，汗毛顿立，直奔厕所，！·#￥%……—*（）——+（省略数字，请您遐想）。于是想，难道什么吃坏了？不可能啊，今天吃的很干净啊，难道是西瓜？不会吧，想当年，暑假一人在家，早中饭都是西瓜的日子，肚皮还不是收放自如。：）如今老矣？未多想，晚饭后，老妈提议我和老爸把西瓜消灭掉，我犹豫数秒，哼，我还就不信这个邪了，又狂啃2块。 写字台前，准备小阅几页，汗毛又立，我并！再并！肚子有点小疼，终于在数分钟后，我明白了，确实西瓜是可以滑肠的，滑肠面前人也是可以斗争的。：）

 

哈哈，博大家一笑啦！~~~~

等到这个季节

好久没来, My Space的界面好像有点不一样。对改变没啥感觉。

终于熬过了酷暑，阵阵凉风，晚上看出窗外，好美，以前都没发觉，醉了。

下午舍不得睡午觉，想多享受会这么舒服的天气。理了理衣橱，翻了翻专业书。

周四HIGH到3点才回家，难得一次足矣。

这个季节，生活多姿多彩。

今夜无眠

12点还差5分钟，睡不着，没有一丝睡意。洗了把澡还是睡不着.

 

打开校友录，发现初中的页面全是结婚照，受刺激….很严重的那种,更夸张,还有张照片署名’我女儿八个月大’…..倒地5分钟…..并强烈检讨自己天天也不知道在瞎忙点啥,怎么一点成果也没的.曾经….曾经…..唉,算了,同事MSN说’Your Mr Right should not leave you, if he leaves you, he is just Mr Leave.’ 恩,那就Let Mr Leave leave! 好友来短信’一个人有钱的感觉真爽’.看来这老兄最近发展的不错,不过这主前两天才和我说想结婚生孩子呢!

 

唉,都该干嘛干嘛……我数羊睡觉去了!

别说我的眼泪你无所谓

一个人在这个夜里
孤单得难以入睡
真的想找个人来陪
不愿意一个人喝醉
醉了以后就会流泪
数着你给的伤悲
为什么你总让我憔悴
别说我的眼泪你无所谓

看我流泪你头也不回
哭过了泪干了心变成灰
我想要的美你还不想给
伤了的我的心怎去面对
爱给了你我不后悔
只希望你给我一次机会
让我去追让我去飞
毕竟爱过的心需要安慰
需要你安慰

手机座

我有一个手机座，样子是个水晶高跟鞋。最特别的就是每次来电话它都会闪灯。每次闪灯我都很兴奋,因为我知道会有电话进来。相信等过电话的人，都会深有体会。但是我发现机座是会受干扰的。周围信号太多，它也会亮。所以，很多次，我由希望变失望，只因机座在闪，手机未响。但愿这种搭错线的事情别再发生！